Border. Border pathology characterized by diffuse boundaries of the individual. As a result of processes occurring with the person in therapeutic work, the boundaries of being completed or newly restored. Feeling the appearance of a man of personal boundaries is similar to the feeling that he's got something very beautiful, for example, expensive fur coat. Besides the fact that awareness of the presence of boundaries is perceived as something very beautiful, it is More and a new sense of "dressed". A man with diffuse (permeable, blurred) boundaries feels 'naked' naked, as if standing in the cold, wind-through in the nude. Or as if in room with windows without glass. And the first time after a person discovers the existence of borders, ie the presence of "clothing", "coat", it is in contact with other attempts to again "unbutton his coat," take off "clothes", that is to return to the merger, because of habit, thinking that it ensures the safety of the merger.
In fact, the true safety of a person give his borders, their skill builds the. A merger is like samozabytyu, "delirium" when person is, but does not realize not feel like there is an imaginary lichnost.To safety, security, psychological partial non-existence. The next stage in the awareness of the boundaries may become the "epiphany" that coat in contact can not remove completely, and undo a couple buttons make it easier to talk and gesticulate. Or remove the coat, but not for long as we throw down with all my clothes during sex, but after the close, we always dress again.